
Wednesday, April 14, 2010, Senovio Vega passed away. Senovio came to work for my father-in-law when Ryan was about 13 years old. Senovio has been a part of Ryan's everyday life since that time and a part of me and my childrens everyday life since we became a part of the family!
Senovio passed away at only 48 years of age. He has been fighting a battle with cancer for the past year and the most tragic part of this is that he has been cancer free now for the past few months! It was everything they put into his body that made it shut down. We have cried so many tears over the past week. We miss him like crazy and our hearts ache for his family. Senovio left behind two young sons and a sweet little wife. We have cried tears not only for our loss, but for theirs. A senior in high school should not have to be a pallbearer at his dad's funeral. It has been hard to watch them be tough for their sweet mother and family!
In memory of Senovio I have decided to write down some of our favorite memories!
Ryan LOVES to tell our kids the story about Senovio roping a deer! I have NEVER seen someone as strong as Senovio! He is like a horse!! He knows how to work and has always worked so hard.
The kids and I love that Senovio honked his horn EVERY time he drove past our house. He honked even if it was the middle of the night (which Ry didn't like so much!) My favorite was the days when the kids were outside and not only did he honk, he slowed way down, stuck his arm as far out the window as he could and yelled to my kids "Hello!"(with his spanish accent) We also loved honking at him when he was out changing water because he would stand-up tall and wave again as big as he could so that all 4 kids could see him. Senovio loved kids and stopped to talk to mine everytime he saw them.
Senovio especially loved the little girls! (where he has two boys of his own he wasn't as fond of the stinky boys:)) He would ask my girls all summer long if he could come and pick them up at night so they could go help him change the water. He would always try to bribe them by telling them that they could "hold the flashlight!"
Senovio every once in a while would bring my kids Mexican candy or juices and sometimes little bananas!
Senovio and I understood things in the same way. We both knew that the work would still be there tomorrow. There were several times he would tell Ryan to go home and be with his family. There were several times that Senovio would stay to work so Ryan could go home to be with his family.
Senovio was always my very first phone call when the cows were out or the water needed changed and Ryan wasn't here to do it! I DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM GOING TO DO WITHOUT HIM!
The thing I loved the most and will miss the very most though is Senovio's bright white smile! He wore it EVERYWHERE he went!
I have to admit the past few days have been emotionally exhausting. The Catholic's do funerals much different than the Mormons. It was neat to be in attendance at his funeral and see the love his family has for him. It was hard at the same time knowing that they don't know what we know! If only we could give them this gift of eternal families I think it would (somewhat) ease their pain! I count the plan of salvation as one of my greatest blessings!
So, for now, slowly, a day-at-a-time our hearts will heal and we will at some point stop watching for Senovio to drive by and honk or come walking around the corner. We gave a plaque to his sweet widow that said, "Siempre Amando, Nunca Olvidado" ALWAYS LOVED, NEVER FORGOTTEN! This is truly the case!!